These answer a lot of questions and are terrific resources for parents of students with learning needs:

My favorite for parents:     Understood https://www.understood.org/

Great resource:                   Smart Kids With Learning Disabilities www.smartkidswithld.org/

Provides tech tools:            Learning Ally https://www.learningally.org/

Develop self-Advocacy Skills in Your Child

This article discusses the importance of teaching your child in the early years to understand what is needed for his/her learning success and develop respectful ways to speak to the teacher(s) about obtaining the agreed upon supports and accommodations.

http://www.smartkidswithld.org/getting-help/raising-independent-kids-2/self-advocacy-strategies-ages/